Comments on With Brook Lynne in Mind: death to snoopy.

I want to quote your post in my blog. It can? And ...

2009-12-25T10:27:23.610-05:00

I want to quote your post in my blog. It can?
And you et an account on Twitter?

snooping is LAME because what happens in the end??...

2009-08-24T05:11:34.676-04:00

snooping is LAME because what happens in the end??

YOU PISS YOURSELF OFF FOR FINDING SOME SHIT YOU AINT WANNA KNOW ANYWAY.

::unfolds arms::

Ok Brook you had me yellin "EXACTLY" &am...

2009-07-30T18:44:17.660-04:00

Ok Brook you had me yellin "EXACTLY" & "THAT'S WHAT I TOLD HIS AppleSugarSpice" lol.....you hit the nail on the head wit this 1.

I LOVE THIS BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I spoke n this ...

2009-07-30T18:28:10.575-04:00

I LOVE THIS BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I spoke n this same suject a couple of weeks ago and I will admit I did say the complete oppsite, lmao. Hands Down, U couldnt have said it any better:) Thanks so much for Real Honesty!

Its not worth it

2009-07-30T03:50:34.943-04:00

Its not worth it

if you like the song you posted above by lady gaga...

2009-07-28T18:48:46.569-04:00

if you like the song you posted above by lady gaga, you should check out this one!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oP8SrlbpJ5A&feature=related

:)

xoxo,
--LALA

"iv never been the "snooping" type,...

2009-07-27T17:43:59.876-04:00

"iv never been the "snooping" type, because i myself, value my own privacy, and i would hate to deny someone else that same right, its almost criminal. double standards = not cool (if you can help it!). besides, could you imagine searching for the worst and finding NOTHING-and then getting caught! can you really come back from that? lets just be honest, finding someone your in a relationship with going through your things just to find some proof of their own beliefs, can show lack of trust, obviously, and lack of character. and can you still be with them? finding out that your mate suffers from paranoia? because if your searching for something to validate your accusations, that means you have NO proof, maybe just innuendo, gossip, or bad nerves. again, paranoia." <---I agree 100%!!!

"my opinion, SNOOPING IS LAME. keep looking for something to fuss over, and trust me, you will find it. and if you do not find it, im sure yall will fuss over you looking for it. LACK of trust is that one thing that will break the back of any relationship-i dont care who you are. i refuse to go thru another man's phone or computer, laptop, etc. as a matter of fact, im not even interested. im more interested in building a bond through trust, and if he is doing something shady on the side, let the guilt eat him, if that doesnt work, then believe in the saying so many of you preach "the truth always comes to light"." <--YUUUP!

Me personally, I couldn't be with some1 I don't trust..u'll ALWAYS have a lot of unnecessary bullshit coming ur way. And a paranoid mofo is a scary mofo & those r the ones u watch out for, ain't no telling wut they're capable of...I couldn't fux w/it @ ALL!!!

~♥QUEEN♥~

You know how much i hate agreeing with you .... bu...

2009-07-27T14:45:32.788-04:00

You know how much i hate agreeing with you .... but damnit ... that was a 3 pointer plus a foul!!! GREAT POST!

DONT LOOK FOR SOMETHING YOU WISH YOU WONT FIND , CUZ IF YOU DO FIND IT .. YOU ARE GONNA WISH YOU NEVER LOOKED.

"IF YOU DONT BELIEVE THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH ... I DONT BELIEVE YOU SHOULD BE WITH THAT PERSON"

i can go on and on .. but ill stop.

i use to do the same thing. The thing that is so c...

2009-07-27T08:08:49.223-04:00

i use to do the same thing. The thing that is so crazy is when you find something then what? 9 times out of 10 he's going to tell some lie that we can't disprove. And since we love him we will always give him the benefit of the doubt. So why be stressed out when he is not.I stopped checking my man's phone years ago and leave a much more contentlife because of it.

Wow! Nice blog brook, your hot too. Im just showin...

2009-07-26T19:32:05.046-04:00

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sat it again...& again...& one more time f...

2009-07-26T15:24:34.134-04:00

sat it again...& again...& one more time for the bitch ass nigga in the bck tht didnt quite hear it all...lol...i LOVE ur blogs...so much truth...& i can relate...unfortunately i use to be one of those snooping bitches...lol...but it proved nothing...tht he was a dog...& i knew tht 4rm the beginning cuz he was cheating w/ me...ugh...u live & u learn, then u read Brooke's Blog!!! lol...

I wish I could say that my number one gripe with s...

2009-07-25T22:00:26.230-04:00

I wish I could say that my number one gripe with snooping is that people deserve privacy, but that's not it for me. The thing that turns me off about snooping is that it turns into an endless cycle. Once you do it the first time you're going to keep doing it, even if you repeatedly find nothing. It boils down to simply not having a strong foundation of trust in your man/woman and your relationship. I've never looked into something that I wasn't already given the password to. However, even being given a password is too much temptation for me. It drives me crazy. Since I can't keep my own self in check, I just don't accept passwords anymore.

Furthermore, when you snoop everything looks suspicious. Something that could be so simple can sound totally like something that its not. Snooping sensationalizes everything you read. It's just not worth it.

I'm behind you 110% on this. The phrase "...

2009-07-25T13:41:22.786-04:00

I'm behind you 110% on this. The phrase "Seek and you shall find" relates to this topic also. And another thing if you feel the need to snoop B/C of suspicion then your suspicion is more than likely true anyway. Your entries are so "REAL LIFE" and i can relate...Thats why I just started my own. Deuces(2222)
5starknows.blogspot.com

Funny you should mention the "snooper"! ...

2009-07-25T05:29:26.180-04:00

Funny you should mention the "snooper"! I typically can't stand ppl who snoop, it's SUCH the turnoff. However, I found myself digging a few years ago when my bf @ the time left his email account open on my computer. Now, initially I was going to close this email...until I saw a message dead smack in the middle of the screen from none other than...my BFF (or so I thought). Naturally curiosity DID kill the cat, I opened it, read it...and neeless to say it was some backstabbin' isht goinzon. Had 2 cut the both of them off. That was the 1st and last of my "snooping adventures"...I'll NEVER do it again. Cuz you will 9x out of 10 find what you're looking for, and be hurt in the end. It's not even worth it!

So, I'm with you Mz. Brook hunni on the 21(+) questions...it'll all come out when the time is right.

(PS-Ur blog entries r pretty dope btw...it's a lot of "Real" isht goin' on over here...LUVZ it!)
Toodles mama...

I have to agree when you search.. your bound to fi...

2009-07-25T01:33:00.226-04:00

I have to agree when you search.. your bound to find something that's going to hurt your feelings or your pride either way, you loose. Snooping only comes when there is no trust. Thats when you need to ask the question why do you even find the need to ponder... and if its that serious, you dont trust your partner. Or you, yourself are looking for something to justify the wrong you may be doing yourself...

hmm i never go through any guys things... whats in...

2009-07-25T01:31:25.614-04:00

hmm i never go through any guys things... whats in the dark will come to light. but i did peek at the silent partners twitter groupies and i must say they have nothing on MOI...LMAO..okay im outta here. love u brooky

that was really good advice, it spoke to me in alo...

2009-07-25T00:33:58.831-04:00

that was really good advice, it spoke to me in alot of ways. thx.

Snooping starts at very young. I know girls who au...

2009-07-24T22:04:41.838-04:00

Snooping starts at very young. I know girls who automatically start going through the phones of whoever they talking to.

I hate people who find numbers and just call to asks strangers what their relationship is with "so and so". Are you that insecure and trust-less? ugh!

I don't have the urge to go through my man's personal stuff just because. Some people who do that are living in guilt. Their mind set is "if I am getting away with all this shit, I know he/she is too"

Good post!

i have to agree 100 with your blog. if you go look...

2009-07-24T22:03:44.336-04:00

i have to agree 100 with your blog. if you go looking for something you gonna either find what you are looking for or get caught. karma is a bitch, what goes around comes around, so if you feel your significant other is doing dirt believe you me it will come back.trust is the back bone of any relationship, once its lost its hard to get back.

preach, brook. my man will tell me all his passwo...

2009-07-24T22:01:27.062-04:00

preach, brook.

my man will tell me all his passwords, and all that shit but I refuse to go snooping about phones, twitter accounts, myspace, facebook, none of that. it's just not worh it at all.

Very Nice! If you don't have trust what do you...

2009-07-24T21:59:39.161-04:00

Very Nice! If you don't have trust what do you have anyway? Thank You Brook for this great post!

Girl, I am with you 100%. I use to be the "sn...

2009-07-24T21:58:26.904-04:00

Girl, I am with you 100%. I use to be the "snooper" always checkin thru my boyfriends phone, email, myspace, ect. *never one of my jumpoffs, they were not important enough for me to care what they were doing* which led me to think that because I cared so much about him, I didnt want to get hurt so I snooped not to validate suspicions but to make sure nothing was going on. A few times I did find something that raised a lot of red flags but I then realized that you cant go thru all that and get upset if you find something, you are asking for it. But I still hold on to my belief that there are times where I see no problem with it, if you aint doin nothing what you got to hide? But its all about trust in a relationship, if you dont have it, then you need to let him/her go! It will only drive you crazy, as it almost did me. Now I dont go thru anything, I have ALLL his passwords and everything, but I know that his privacy is his privacy. yes we are in a relationship but that does not mean he is not entitled to being able to have some sort of space to himself.

Great blog Brook

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