Another Double Standard.
10.05.2011
Short and sweet..
I always see these guys on my Timeline via Twitter, talking about gold diggers and women only being interested in them for their money, or so called "social status".
Mind you, these are the same gentlemen that will have every piece of jewelry that they own on in their profile picture. Or, they're constantly twit pic-ing whatever car they're leasing this quarter, club pics of them spilling Moet Rose, and the reaaaally popular picture of them standing with or around celebrities. So, I ask, what and who are you trying to attract if you're only selling the materialistic side of your social existence? Rhetorical. You're not writing poetry, saving animals from oil spills or recycling all your empty Moet bottles, YOU ARE SHOWING OFF in an attempt to get ATTENTION. You successfully get attention from women, and say.."All you bitches want is my money" ..WELP, stop broadcasting what you do not want to be used for. It's kind of like "Million Dollar Matchmaker". Seriously. They want to tell these women "No sex until monogamy"..and "No gold digging" but yet, the very allure of your service is in the first two words of your business name .."Million Dollar". Then the men have the audacity to feel a "way" that women only want them for their money, so they sign up for a dating service that describes their current tax bracket, and what? You expect to attract who? Knock it off.
My point is this: Men, don't be mad when a woman desires or would like to date a partner who is financially stable and/or wants to be taken care of. ESPECIALLY if you're very forthright with your financial social status. After all, men clearly are permitted to date women based on their physical attributes, and that seems to be ok. But the moment a woman would like to date a man on his financial attributes, she is a gold digger. Aren't both equally superficial, yet one more chastised than the other?
Why do we have a problem with women who are attracted to men with money, but do not have a problem with men who draw class distinctions with women based on their beauty, or lack there of..?












5 thought(s)..:
God bless you for articulating this!!!! This is definitely one of the my top 5 issues with the manchild. It goes as well for the children who scream "i'll take/fuck your bitch," but whimper over a female's lack of loyalty. Well.....
Sadly, I think some people grasp the concept of your blog post, but pull the "ignorance is bliss" card and don't act accordingly. Whoever said "if you knew better, you'd do better" didn't know what was coming with our generation.
Great site! Great tweets! Someone who understands common since is classic!
@onandonAlex
Probably those same guys who go to strip clubs to watch women dance and turn around and call those same women hoes...
Oddly enough I tend to see the same from broke dudes that barely have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. Always complaining about women being gold diggers. Seems like some dudes nowadays want quality but, don't want to be responsible for it.
Very true! I agree 100%. i still don't think they get it though... @filasims
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