Spring Cleaning, in the winter, though.

In the closing of the year, I think we all need to clear out our closets a little bit. Get rid of pieces we are or have been holding onto forever because we are too scared to let it go. Trust me, that floor length pink fur coat is HIDEOUS. Oh, and by the way, I'm not talking about clothes! I'm talking about getting rid of old frenemies that you are probably afraid of confronting. People who don't match with shit that you have going on in your life.

I did a post on this a couple weeks back..about frenemies and how to spot them. And they're worse than an actual enemy. Because with an enemy the lines are clearly drawn. You definitely know who's side they are on, and because its not yours, they are always adjacent to you. Even though they are in your line of sight, a lot of the insults they throw, are in the air. Which is usually harmless but noted. With a frenemy, they're battling you in their mind. Less easy to spot. While they kiss your ass and move in your circles, they secretly are plotting on being a part of any misery you come across. So, in your closet they are usually hiding behind an over sized coat, or stuffed in some empty shoe box somewhere. They will usually take on the impression of being necessary, and you will probably be in some kind of denial that this particular person even still fits you. Confrontation, try that on for size.

When cleaning out your closet for new years, just know that a frenemy may not be as obvious as a floor length pink fur, but it can still be spotted in a Feng Shui encounter. These mangy bitches are everywhere!

Happy Holidays!