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Sex with your Ex? Nope.
10.23.2009
Having sexual relations with someone who you are no longer with, usually sounds like it is not such a good idea. Since that person is indeed in the past, it kind of gives you the sense that you are moving backwards, even if it is just for intercourse. Anyone you have had some kind of history with, complicated or not, will make it almost impossible to not re hatch these feelings during some late night rendezvous. I know I may get a backlash for this, but women, we know that along with sex there are times we also develop an attachment and/or emotion with that person we have chose to bring back in our bedroom. Now add an EX into the equation, and it further complicates things. Which is ironic, because “X” in mathematical terms, means nothing, so when it comes to sex, why does the X mean so much?
8 thought(s)..:
This blog should have been written two weeks ago, at least I mean for me. Oh well its now affirmation. Thanks Yana
Brook wonderful topic and I agree with you 100%! I had sex with an ex a couple of weeks ago and should not have but it was great. Keep up the good work and can't wait for your book.
well put..i agree with "anonymous" i should of read this sometime ago..i agree personally with getting them back type sex..the feelings i had for him resurfaced..but the feelings he had for me didn't....hmph and i refused to become anybody's booty call and yup the relationship was only about sex..it was like playing with fire..i had to get burnt a couple of times in order to learn my lesson
PLEASE write some more blogs lol..maybe you'll have another blog i'll read and it will prevent me from getting burnt!
M.S Brook-lynne Back in the house wit out a doubt,See this what I'm tal'bout some food for thought metaphoric type off the brain type sh*t I LOVE to read (stamped that),thank you for giving insight to my eyes again 'cause most these other bloggers on that copycat b*llsh*t...You might be the ILLEST blogger doing it 'cause most these other bloggers is losing it.
Hmm. I would have disagreed with you a few weeks ago, but then while having sex with my ex, she burst out crying. I thought it was because she felt guilty about cheating on her new dude, but she later tells me about all the pain it brought up for her regarding how she feels I broke her heart, and how us doing it resurfaced all those old feelings. So, yeeeeeaaah. Good post.
If you were with that person for a long time then
Sex with the X is the BEST
Because the two of you know each other very well
and know what the other likes and when
whereas, your new person may not
Sex with an x should be glass you break "in case of an emergency".
The emergency would be to prevent yourself from having sex with someone just because you haven't had any in a while, as u wrote.
I have my own negative opinions regarding women hopping on a random pole because they want an orgasm, so familiarity, should be the best case scenario.
I'm stuck on your blog right now, I love your writing style. Later!
i regret sleepin with my X last year. it brought drama into the light.
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