LAME bus. vol 1.

im starting a series called "the lame bus" its a bus im sending around to pick up guys or girls, who have decided to engage in constant lame activity. :o]

i think any decent looking woman will be able to relate to this post, as i am DYING to just vent about MEN who hound you, in the mall, the parking lot, the club, the laundry room, ANYWHERE..it gets so ridiculous and uncomfortable that my immediate defense mechanism is to flip my bitch switch. your fault. cause and reaction.

i think every woman is flattered to get a compliment from men OR women, depending on how genuine it is of course, and we would like to accept the compliment and move on with our day. but when that small admiration is followed up by numerous questions like "whats your name, age, do you have kids, where you from, can i get your number?" melody, it gets to be annoying and "extra".

opening conversation with a woman that you seek interest in isnt a bad thing at all, but it is all in your delivery and it is also up to you to appear to have some self esteem and tact! observe things like, her body behavior, her facial expression, etc. here are some things to help you guys leave some of us women alone.

• if i am walking at a rather fast pase in the opposite direction of you, no interest is there.
• no eye contact..no interest.
• if i am answering open ended questions with "yes" or "no" period. no bueno.
• my body language. am i backing up? you should be doing the same then.
  
  

after all, if a girls seems, looks, or is blatantly uninterested why in the world would you want to FORCE her to take your number?

HIM: "do you have a man?"

HER: "yes"

HIM: "well take my number anyway, we can be friends"

no we cant. we cant be anything for anyone who doesnt respect my relationship (even if i am lying about having a man, clearly its for a reason). and guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend was giving out her number to guys who just want to be her "friend". GEEEEZ, get a CLUE. this isnt chess, its basic "connect the dots" shit.

bottom line, gentlemen, its absolutely A-OK to "holla" or "get-at" or whatever with a young lady. its ok to spark conversation and show interest, but please observe obvious signs that the woman is not interested. there is NOTHING worse than a man who is a fucking pest, and following you around the parking lot. you look desperate and lame.

if your going to get off the LAME BUS and try and put on cool clothes, so you can fool us ladies, at the very least, ACT cool as well. dang.