"stripper is, what stripper does."

i ran across this ridiculous and most commonly asked question on a forum on lipstickalley.com.

"Can somebody explain the ideology behind men trying to save strippers nowadays? Most dudes with mad dough that I have met are getting into serious relationships with these girls and putting them up. Is this the new trend? They actually fall in love with these hoes who take diks in their mouth and ass everyday with random dudes! Can somebody explain? Please and thank you." -jilted

admit it. to some of you non strippers out there, im sure you joke and cackle about women who dance and the men they are involved with, sleep with, are friends with, how much money they make, what they are doing for money, and so on and so on. the curiosity is killing some of you so much that you HANG OUT in strip clubs just so you can stare and speculate, and wait for the next whoever to come in, to see how much money he spends, what stripper he is talking to, what stripper(s) he dances to death, and you are not satisfied, because THEN you are in the parking lot after the club closes, or the after hours, falling over yourself to get into vip, where the "strippers" are partying, with person(s) who spend money on them, and you want to soooooo bad know why.

and then, after all this piggy backing your doing, you have the audacity to ask a question that screams "IM INSECURE BECAUSE I LOST MY BOYFRIEND TO A STRIPPER!"-ok. i have an answer to your vulnerable question.

men have been dating women who dance long before you or i were even thought of. to suggest that it is new or has only been going on "nowadays" shows either your simplicity or your denial. either way, dating strippers will never go away. ever. because they are, for the most part, attractive women who have an allure that SOME women who do not dance, hide or think is dirty, dont know how to portray, or are just not in touch with their sexuality.

how many times does your boyfriend have to ask you to take ALL your clothes off in the bedroom. how many times during sex do you have to turn the lights back off after he has tried to keep them on? when is the last time you took a hand mirror and looked at your "lady parts"? obviously you wont answer these questions out loud honestly, but dont blame the answers to these questions on STRIP. your mind is closed.

there a lot of women who do not dance, and have never danced, who exude confidence and certainty with their sexuality and their bodies, but there are always the uptight miserable closeted groupies who shun the women who get paid to dance around naked, while you watch from the bar trying to find every possible flaw your empty mind can think of on the girl(s) who dont mind taking off their clothes to make money, and while counting this money downstairs later in the night, laugh at you and your feeble attempts to get noticed.

as for the "hoes who take diks in their mouths and ass all day" comment, women in every kind of industry make choices as to what they want to do with whoever after their work day ends. whether your day ends at 3am or 3pm, who you fuck is not conditional on your job status. its an easy card to pull, calling a stripper a hoe, because are bodies are visual entertainment. you think if i get naked for money i will do anything for money, which is a common myth and has been proven wrong on a nightly basis 'round these parts. and if you happen to notice, some of these "customers" that you loathe so much come in with girls that they plan on sticking their "dik" in later on, im sure. oh, and by the way, those arent dancers choking on that million dollar dick. just regular women who want to have sex with whom they please, and then minding their business. not to say strippers dont have there picks and choosings, but its not so often that it can be predicted. besides, its cheaper for him to fuck YOU. atleast then he doesnt have to come in the club and spend his money in order to even get a dancers attention. its not chess doll, its checkers. these are men here, there is no rocket science in fucking women. especially if both parties are consenting.

as for the relationships and being "put up". thats your fault. all these women running around saying "im soooo independent i dont need yours" now you want to look cock eyed at the stripper, because she doesnt even know how much her rent is, because she doesnt have to pay it. stop looking a gift horse in the mouth, allow your self to be courted. stripping is not like working at the WALMART or VERIZON WIRELESS or any other reputable company with paid time off. if we dont move our feet, we dont eat. so yes, there are times when in a relationship with a dancer, if a guy has money and wants her to spend time with him away from the club, then yes..as you would call it..he "puts her up" or helps her out. time is money, and it shouldnt take a stripper to explain mathematics to you. a secure man will look right pass obvious shit like what you do for a living, and into a womens mind, which is something WE still possess as adult entertainers. now you wonder why men want to date women who are carefree, and uninhibited and dont associate sexuality with social status. how freeing that must be for him, coming from an uptight, prude angry women, who wont let her man slap her on the ass everyonce in awhile.

my apologies if the "dudes with mad dough" that you have met just want to go home to there strippers turned housewives and stick their "dik" and her mouth and her ass, instead of sticking it in your mouth to shut you up. maybe you should take some strip aerobics at crunch gyms, or walk around the house naked, with the shades open, or maybe you just stop minding the business of strippers. trust me, there will always be bad apples in any type of industry, those bad apples always seem to produce stereotypes that lesser women like yourself, abuse and continue to perpetuate with idiotic questions posted in forums, JUST so you can get the attention and acknowledgement from other neglected women who are just as insecure as you, and then and only then will you feel validated for the pure hate you have of women who take off their clothes under hot lights, and get paid for it. i know how you are feeling babydoll.."always a bridesmaid, never a bride."